When is the proper time to beg? I do believe we must think before we beg for something. Is the act of begging going to please the dominant, or is it coming from a place of submissive selfishness. Such as begging for forgiveness. Submissives want and need forgiveness because it will make us feel better, yet how do you still put your dominant first while begging for such a thing? Submissives tend to beat themselves up mentally when they have disappointed as it is, and is sometimes harsher punishment than what the dominant will impose. Is it right or wrong to beg for forgiveness, even if it helps release the guilt and anguish the submissive is feeling? If she knows she is forgiven, will she not then serve better in a more pleasing way? I need to understand, when it is proper to beg and when not to.
Perhaps .. the Dominant one enjoys your begging as much as you enjoy the attention that follows?
Perhaps .. it is always proper to beg because your Dominant one needs to know all of the feelings that you experience so that He can control you better?
Perhaps.